And a gobble, gobble there.
The circling vulture dogs (who are already plenty excited about the smells to be smelled in the little kitchen tomorrow, LOTS of veggies !) and I wish all y'all a most happy and wonderful and fulfilling Thanksgiving.
Eat lots. Let your belt or waistband out a notch. And be thankful that you have the food on your table, and in your larder, to do so.
Revel in your families, all their glories and foibles. If your mother pours gravy over the date-nut bread (don't ask me how I have this story.....), resist the urge to dive under the table and die of embarrassment. Remember that in a few years' time, this will be a beloved family memory, which even Mom will enjoy and laugh about. And in more years' time, when Mom isn't around to embarrass you any longer, you'll wish you had some date-nut bread and gravy around. Not to mention Mom.
Relax and enjoy the moment. The smells of the turkey roasting, the sound of the sizzle of the veggies sauteing for the stuffing, the color of the cranberries, the aroma of bread or dinner rolls baking or the precious yeastie bugs doing their magic in the dough on the counter before anyone else is up. The satisfaction of looking around the table, seeing everyone happy and relaxed and stuffed, and knowing it was a good day.
Pour an extra glass of wine (or sparkling cider, or whatever) and congratulate yourself for delivering a wonderful meal, or, if you didn't cook the feast, for participating in a wonderful meal. Then put your feeties up and let the kids (even if the "kids" are 30-somethings) clean up the kitchen.
Resist the urge to join the stampede at the mall at 6:00 p.m. I saw one woman on the local news today, she's already camping out, and the reporter said, well what about Thanksgiving? Her reply...."it's just dinner. We eat dinner every day".
No. It's not just dinner. It's a celebration of us, Americans, in all our beauty and with all our warts. More than any other holiday, it's about us. And our families. Coming together over the table to celebrate us and our relationships and each other. And no high-def TV, no matter how ridiculously cheap it is, can replace that. In 30 years, will you remember that TV, or will you remember your Thanksgivings, around your family table, with those you care about?
Watch the parades, watch the football games, watch the dog show (guess which one The Grrrrlz and I chose?), and savor the day. Be thankful for what you have, and what you've been given, and figure out a way to spread that fortune.
Happy Thanksgiving folks. We'll return to your regularly scheduled food blog over the weekend.